Think not vicious because infertility results

 My story is this: My wife and I love each other since they were in college, we were married 5 years but had no children. We visit once in Tu Du, normal results I and my husband so afraid and nervous, he was not at the clinic.

Then we ran a lot of treatment in different ways but did not work (the way are mostly not go according to western medicine and focuses on the cure for me). So sometimes I feel uncomfortable, I do not have what your stars themselves began to take medication luxuriant groves. after a period of about 3 years running such treatment, no results. I advised my husband to follow western medicine and treatment he agreed.

Everything came so treated advantages: you treat the varicose veins surgery crystals, re-examination and taking nourishment, enhanced monthly. But so far has been 4 months and no results. He felt depressed and aimless and thought. I also advised him and agreed with him that the cure itself in this way for 4 months, the new results are not available immediately, if not successful to consider artificial insemination and too much not to have children, the wife husband still live together because of how normal childless couple, they are still very happy life together.

But two weeks ago, I discovered he was raising tensions and intentions "will have a moment, he freed me, let me take another husband, a mother." Knowing this, I was very sad and cried, hugging him. I told him that I loved him and get emotional because honestly, because of his virtues, not because of physical or having children or not having children (Actually, there are sometimes when listening to his committee reported The good news, I also moments of sadness, but it is only transient and not make me think a lot).

After dinner yesterday discovered he had thoughts like that, then I do not think of anything more that the whole thought of crazy things and I suffer from chronic insomnia. People know what I think? I think his or ask someone (who is reputed to be, to keep the secret for the peace of his family) a baby. My concern is a lot because I can not do that, if I do so, society will not forgive me for the future can be and when my husband said the incident would not be able to forgive me. .. But really, I was sad, worried, scared and did not know I should do? Because my husband, still or concerns, though pensive in front of me, he tried to be a normal, happy, love my way as usual.

I look forward to sharing, spiritual help people, especially couples having family situation as me. I sincerely thank the editorial office, thank you!

Lotus

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